ratspotting:

ratspotting:

Bi girls have the same capacity to love girls as lesbians.

I gained a bunch of followers today but then I posted this and lost them. Don’t underestimate how much bi girls can love women. I have more crushes on girls than there are kernels on a corn.

bonesarebae:

justedrecoverythings:

dothenextrighthing:

reminder that your eating disorder is still valid even if:

  • you dont think it is
  • you’ve never been underweight
  • you are weight restored
  • you are at a ‘normal’ weight
  • you are overweight/obese
  • you’ve never had to go to inpatient or residential
  • you do not have a restrictive ed
  • you do not use the behaviors most commonly associated with eds
  • you do not have ‘fear foods’
  • you don’t like oatmeal or those foods people are always taking pics of
  • you like food and are fine owning that
  • you hate working out or dont work out 
  • you’ve never restricted/binged/purged
  • you’ve never been through anything that you feel validates your ed 
  • you dont have any ed horror stories 
  • you feel like your ed isnt as serious as someone else’s
  • you dont feel sick enough
  • your loved ones do not know
  • your loved ones do not believe you
  • your loved ones are not helping you get the help you need
  • your struggle looks different than the ones portrayed by the media
  • you are triggered by different things than most
  • you are not triggered by others
  • your recovery isn’t proving to be as difficult as its portrayed
  • your recovery is going ‘quickly’
    your recovery is going smoothly
  • you are progressing in your recovery
  • you dont want to recover
  • you consciously developed your ed
  • you are not actively using behaviors today/now/anymore

Bless

[~]

  • employer: so what would you say is your biggest weakness?
  • me: probably just like who I am as a person

bakrua:

being mentally ill + suicidal at a young age (before 18) is. strange, because you grow up with this idea that one day you’ll finally snap, turn off, be brave enough to kill yourself, so you don’t really plan for the future. adulthood- further life, it isn’t for you, nor do you feel included within the future of it. it isn’t.. it isn’t part of your life plan.

and then before you know it you’re 18 and you’re an adult but you never thought you’d get this far and sure it’s great that you’re still alive you guess but also. you feel so alone + lost in a world you never expected or planned to be a part of.